Trust between spouses Imad life, Vthaga that your husband is your choice you, and remember that your husband of your choice you are, and streaked qualities bad Xrah anger and nervousness are not of course in it, but there are a result confidence in it and the lack of Ahtwaek him, and meditative case, what does not a shame you nor deliberately to hurt your feelings, it does not mention of that thing, but he wants to draw attention to you, but by different means you.
Love and compassion and love based home successful that builds community right Valrabotth marital start of the descent of the husband and wife to the sea of life, either Aksma Alador begins with both of them in carrying out his duties, and the united goal toward deliverance and safety, either to let both of them his job and devote himself to another excavating for disadvantage and anger, thus moving the ship without a captain Vtaatlatm waves do not know anywhere to dock.
Be smart and Affhma the language of dialogue with him and get to know when to start bouts of anxiety and anger him, and to overcome these stages are in satisfactory condition at home, and Tru with Vagam is possessed of himself when angry, do not think in the separation and remember what it was between you love and mercy must be between you prophecies of fineness.
Beginning of the tantrums
First you must know a good psychological condition and taken into account.
Second, get to know the face expressions and well Affhmiha, if Harta that features the anger or intensity or that breathes quickly, or severely seen or strongly Itfatt, Vaarafa to be on the verge of explosion in a moment of anger during Hawwark of him. Be tactful and Ahtrm Tstvsais not insisting on what or opposing opinion sharply, or ridicule him or his words.
Atrahi think tactfully Asalah his opinion respected because the human nervous system in need of appreciation and respect, and if necessary his Oattiyta appreciation will not need arises. Is a permanent condition with you at home, it is not a guest and will go out, do we put married life in danger cuff or try to contain it?.
How do you deal with him as a permanent case at home
Must deal with the pair nervous gingerly, when starts the pair at the stage of anger Connie you calm, coherent and be careful of your actions well, do not retrace meekly and deficit and listen to him well and Charih interesting terms such example (Why are you angry?) Or (this deserve anger), and tell him Password (quieter) or (I do not see that it is in need of all these nerve!) or (this risk on your nerves) certainly he knows it all, but these words Chith anger, possible that Tstbdlleha those phrases (you're right), (to think Suiafa solution so as not to repeat it again), (I promise that I will work hard to achieve what you want). Make your eagerness not to talk but only to calm him down.
Art tame pair nervous
After the completion of tantrums national dialogue with him quietly, some wives Ikmn Province husbands expression of anger, but beware of this and make the understanding and Celtic to express your anger is there was no way of understanding to resolve the problem asymptomatic him talk about the disadvantages of anger you as a result of this anger on the house, and Charih Bmutirk it and you Todan that if your life were the happiest, to be calm through your change to put it when angry or to go to a psychiatrist.
Hamsa in your ear, O wife does not think in the salvation of your spouse to temper When he erupts did not mean this or hurt your feelings, true're to assume responsibility like him on your shoulders, but always remember stability and consistency and that divorce is not the solution at all.
See Dr. Ahmad al-Najjar specialist in consulting studies and training: the pair nervous kind-hearted, but irascible a fierce temper very irritable and feel the need to accelerate in the attack on others before Ebagtoh attack, and we find it does not trust anyone and focuses on discussions Mtshehadh. So try not to تظهري him Dikk not to dispute takes a turn for the largest, and try to of Aaqlat women enjoy you quite a bit of wisdom.
The secret of a successful marriage
Successful marriage is based on frankness between the couple, but not absolute, also subject to pass the wife some psychological problems daily that do not benefit the pair if you know it, but you may return it a negative impact, for every human being has its own peculiarities, and that a successful marriage is based on love and compassion and not challenge and controversy.
And also the wife is the center of the family and the center stronger party Fabtaadi tension and frequent speech and movement, and the wife that God-given discernment and courteous enjoys positive rich and saturated, and be the heart compassionate irradiated in her family, it's a human being positive have the ability to influence and persuasion and calm and poise and inspire confidence and trust.
You should note that successful wife know how her husband Traod always you So be those of the wife.
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