How to deal with a problem when the child lying ?

Advantage of our children their own way in addressing their problems and their reactions, and resort and experience all the ways the exposed and non-exposed for their goals, and to escape from the face of their predicament. The first of these means and methods "lying." It is that arises coincidence children ranging in use usually becomes abhorrent to all of us, do not want our children to deal with, so we have to Ntollagha extreme care, education and follow-up.

And children in the first years of age formed inside values. It teaches honesty and generates honest, lying and he knows and generates a liar. So how can we create our children honesty and how to confront their lies? When punish them? Will we use them toward beating this ugly behavior? What are the reasons for lying? What are the types? And when lying becomes a dangerous?

 This article will answer in these questions and then put the basis for planting honesty in the same child from the beginning. But until we address the problem of lying that distinguish between the regarding when children are lying sixth pre-enactment after the sixth.

Children before the age of six



Fact and fiction

Since the child is aware of him and starts to speak, until about the age of six child does not differentiate between fact and fiction, and is a fertile mind and fairytales events and perhaps friends also. When the children by creating fictional stories or exaggerating details of something, they often express what they wish to happen, so it would be a grave mistake to Aanpoa on it and punished they are liars. So beware of your child to be treated as a liar in such a position, and as an alternative position, you will be faced with two choices in front of your child when he starts creating these stories:

Only silent about what he said
 Participates terms spill dye truth on what he said.
For example, if your child tells you said about his teacher at school: I have installed in the plane with my teacher and traveled with her to a remote location! Answer your child's saying interacting accent: Oooh, she loves to travel with! It is of friends wish Erafqkma?

Here goes in but you answer in this case is may to be reflective about his dreams, and who does not love to dream! In this way they have encouraged him to tell you stories about by natural tendency. And you have to know that as long as fancies are live events through which the aspirations and wishes they score intelligent and clear genius. These fantasies may be your child's creativity when significant, especially with the continued after the sixth. So you develop these phantoms drawing and writing, imagination expresses the wishes of the child and his ambitions and aspirations.

Lying to get what he wants, or to avoid what does not want to



At this age also lie the child to get what he wants, or to avoid the work does not want, but do not feel guilty or that he has something wrong. When your child is lying at this age do not exaggerating it does not give him larger arrogance, just look at him seriously, and tell him that it is wrong to lie, and we always tell the truth. It may be appropriate to express to your child how happy you are when your son says honesty, and not telling the truth makes you uncomfortable at all.

Children after the age of six

After almost six years of age, the child begins to excellence between fantasy and reality and less insistence on adhering to the fictional stories as the truth. The child also aware that some of his actions will cause disappointment to his parents or will cause anger and punish them, and may also be grown has a sense of guilt as a result of mistakes. At about the age of seven or eight is fully aware of the difference between fact and fiction, and also realizes that lie in some situations may change is a serious and child in turn become dependent upon the search for the truth of what.

Here, in this age begins the role of education and guidance, and what often happens that parents - and because of their enthusiasm at first - refuse to lie their children's fantasy in life early which is which is not a lie, actually they are guilty of their children and disciplining him, an act at the wrong time and effort in stoppage time, and thus is not feasible. After two or three years that are losing hope in the treatment of this which disenchanted that problem, Vinsahbun at the time that the intervention is a chore!

The six years of age and beyond is the perfect time for the intervention of the disciplinary parents, which, like all other things necessary knowledge and education to resolve and continue to implement solutions, and here's the detailed solutions.

Solutions to the problem of lying

 Find out why your child lie and look for a solution

You Father, to pay attention to your child's lie, and to determine the cause of a lie and therefore know the type of lie. Knowing the reason for lying is more important than lying in itself. You're at the search engine lying and the reason you'll discover the subject and backgrounds will realize significant details control the behavior of your son, and then you will be able to solve the problem of lying and processed. Therefore a special address has been singling out the reasons for lying and types and the proposed solution.

Talk with your child and discuss about the importance of telling the truth

Talk with your child about the importance of honesty and told him what it back honesty in his life, and the word in a language understood and absorbed words. It must understand that honesty satisfy the Lord and satisfy his parents, and it replaced the confidence of the people, and vice versa Falczb angry Lord and angry parents, and people lose confidence in it. Show with PBS for honesty or provisions has Tnaakeca story together.